Ragdoll Boys vs Girls: Which gender should I choose?

At Purrsace, we’re often asked: “Should I choose a boy or a girl?” It’s a fair question. But the answer might surprise you.

While there are a few general differences between male and female Ragdolls, what truly matters is personality and that comes down to their parents, early socialisation, and how they’re raised, not just their gender. So let’s take a walk down the catwalk and explore the beautiful subtleties of both sexes Purrsace-style.

12 week old Purrsace babies.

The Boys of Purrsace: Big, Bold & Affectionate

Our Ragdoll lads are the soft-hearted heartthrobs of the feline world. Typically larger and more robust (think 6.5–9kg of pure fluff), they’re often dubbed “gentle giants” for good reason.

Traits our boys often show:

• Velcro Vibes: Love to be wherever you are. Whether on your lap, at your feet, or watching you shower (yes, really).

• Life of the Paw-ty: Social, outgoing, and the first to investigate a new toy or visitor.

• Big Babies: Our boys often remain playful and kitten-like well into adulthood.

Perfect for: Families or individuals wanting a lively, loyal companion who gives love generously.

The Ladies of Purrsace: Elegant, Clever & Loyal

Our girls may be slightly smaller in size (usually 4.5–6.5kg), but don’t let that fool you, they’re full of spirit and sophistication.

Traits our girls often show:

• Graceful Independence: Often affectionate but on their own terms. They’ll come for cuddles, then strut off like they own the place (spoiler: they do).

• Selective BFF Energy: Tend to bond deeply with one or two favourite humans.

• Balanced Energy: Playful but poised; sweet but savvy.

  
  

Perfect for: Homes that appreciate a more independent feline with a dash of diva charm.

But Here’s the Real Tea: It’s Not Just About Gender

At Purrsace, we’ve learned that personality is inherited more from the parents than from whether they’re a boy or girl. Some mums make calm, snuggly babies. Others produce bundles of playful sass. Some boys are laidback lounge lizards, while others are cheeky explorers.

Each kitten is a unique soul, even within the same litter.

We carefully select pairings based on temperament, not just looks. We also observe each kitten’s behaviour from birth and update our future families with insights at every milestone. From queen to kitten, our focus is on raising confident, social, well-rounded companions.

What About Size?

Yes, our boys tend to be bigger, but bigger doesn’t mean braver or cuddlier. Affection isn’t measured in kilograms.

Whether your future Purrsace kitten ends up 5kg or 9kg, their ability to love, play, and purr their way into your heart is entirely individual.

Cuddles Come in All Shapes & Styles

Some kittens are lap loungers. Others are gentle “shadow cats,” following you from room to room but never quite jumping up. And here’s the thing.. kittens grow and change.

A kitten who’s a confident snuggler in our home might take a few weeks to warm up in yours. One that starts out shy might become your loyal sidekick in no time.

We get to know our kittens well and help guide you toward one that fits your lifestyle. But as with any living creature, a little unpredictability is part of the magic.

We Watch. We Learn. We Match.

By 8 weeks, we’re already noticing personality traits. By 10–12 weeks, we’re refining our matches. And by 14+ weeks, we’re confident enough to suggest the right fit for your family. For first-time pairings, we rely on the temperament of the parents and early behaviour.

Bonus? We often keep track of our Purrsace alumni and love sharing updates about how similar past litters turned out!

Final Verdict: It’s Not “Boy vs Girl”It’s You + Your Match

So, should you choose a boy or a girl?

Our honest advice: Don’t stress about it too much. Let us get to know you and let us help match you with the kitten whose energy suits your home, your routine, and your heart.

Whether it’s a princess or a prince, your Purrsace kitten will be pure joy wrapped in fluff.